Why friendships from the ’70s were simply the best

And who could forget the vibrant avocado green kitchen appliances or the banana bikes that adorned our neighborhoods? The muscle cars zoomed by, showcasing the power and style of the decade. I would gladly revisit those days in a heartbeat.

Now, let’s explore how relationships have evolved from the ’70s to the present day.

1. Communication Styles

In the 1970s, communication in relationships was predominantly face-to-face or via landline telephones.

The idea of texting or instant messaging was far from reality. Couples often wrote letters to express their feelings or shared moments through phone calls.

The number of households with phones soared to about 95% and this was also the decade when touch-tone phones began to replace the old rotary models, making calls a little more efficient — and a lot less frustrating!

In the 1970s, phone rates were quite steep, so I’ve heard that my family seldom talked to our distant relatives until the night rate became available. When the phone rang during the day, it usually meant bad news.

Today, communication is instantaneous, with social media, texting, and video calls allowing couples to connect regardless of distance. This has led to an increase in both communication and, sometimes, miscommunication, as tone and intent can be easily misconstrued through digital mediums.

2. Dating norms and practices

In the past, if you wanted to date, you really needed to have some solid social skills.

For example, you actually had to be brave enough to chat with strangers — imagine that! Some folks claim dating was a walk in the park back then; you could stumble upon your future soulmate practically anywhere — at school, work, or through friends, and yes, even in the smoky haze of bars and clubs.