My Husband Woke Me in the Middle of the Night During My Pregnancy, His Reason Made Me File for Divorce the Next Morning

Fifteen minutes later, Dad’s car pulled up outside. I grabbed a few belongings and headed for the door, ignoring Daniel’s half-hearted attempts to apologize. His friends had already left, leaving him alone on the couch.

As Dad and I drove away, the weight of Daniel’s actions hit me hard. How could he play with my emotions like that, especially while I was pregnant? What kind of father would he be if he couldn’t even respect the boundaries of his partner’s trauma?

The next morning, I woke up with clarity. I couldn’t stay in a relationship where my feelings were disregarded, where my fears were mocked. This wasn’t just about me anymore—this was about protecting my baby from an environment of emotional insensitivity.

I called a lawyer and filed for divorce. My mom, while supportive, tried to convince me I was overreacting. But I knew better. This wasn’t about one prank. It was about a pattern of behavior that showed a lack of care for my mental and emotional well-being.

Since filing, Daniel has bombarded me with apologies and promises to change. But it’s too late. The trust is broken. My safety and my child’s future mean more to me than empty promises. I can’t—and won’t—put up with someone who doesn’t take my fears seriously.

So here I am, awaiting the arrival of my baby, preparing for single motherhood, and bracing myself for the challenges ahead. It won’t be easy, but I know in my heart that I’m making the right choice—for myself and for my child.

What would you do if you were in my shoes? Would you take control, prioritize your well-being, and protect your child from someone who disregards your feelings? Or would you hope for change and try to forgive?