Father Is Concerned Because His Son Looks Nothing Like Him And Gives Him A DNA Test

The UPDATE:

The day he was supposed to receive the results, I called my FIL and invited them to come over that evening. He was working when he got the results. He sent them to me and told me he would talk to his mother to finally put this to rest. I informed him that I had already invited them for this evening and I am just waiting for my apology before I leave. I asked that he come home so we can talk before they come over.

He called, and I basically told him that this is not working for me anymore. I’ve already talked to an attorney, filed for divorce, and it might be more expensive than a paternity test, but it would be more effective making his mother happy. (And no, I don’t care that he was working when I told him. I don’t think you would have either.)

He left work and came home. Long story short, we had a spectacular fight. He said that I am not thinking about my son and I am overreacting because it’s not like he went behind my back. And if he knew that I was this upset, he wouldn’t have done it. But he knew; we fought about it when he brought it up. He just didn’t care.

When I gave him the divorce papers, he said he’s not signing anything and he’ll ask his mother to apologize when his parents arrive and get done with this. Listen, I don’t need him to sign it to get a divorce. It would only make things complicated, that’s it.

His mother said, “She has nothing to apologize for. She wouldn’t apologize for having suspicions. She didn’t accuse me of anything and I can leave if I want to.” So that’s that. I did leave that night because I wasn’t going to get an apology, and he didn’t seem to understand that him reinforcing that it’s okay for her to meddle is why I want a divorce in the first place.