So this woman sees a guy she thinks is cute, and he actually comes up to talk to her. Everythingโs cool at first โ good vibes, light flirting โ until he casually mentions he has a kid.
Sheโs honest and respectful about it. She tells him sheโs not really looking to date someone with a child, and she doesnโt want to lead him on or step into a stepmom role sheโs not ready for.
Instead of taking it maturelyโฆ he completely loses it.
He goes off โ calling her selfish, bitter, saying โthis is why yโall stay single,โ and accusing her of hating kids. All because she set a boundary about her own life.
Like, sirโฆ sheโs allowed to know what she wants. Being a parent is a major responsibility โ not everyoneโs ready for that, and that doesnโt make them wrong.
Moral of the story? Rejection isnโt disrespect. And nobody owes you a relationship just because you said hi.
