Father Is Concerned Because His Son Looks Nothing Like Him And Gives Him A DNA Test
We sometimes hear about families that have difficulties and we wonder if we might never have some difficulties that are similar. As many of us know, those family problems can happen to anyone and in many cases, they happen out of the blue.
That was the case with the family we are discussing below. Not only did the father have issues because his child looked nothing like him but the mother-in-law was involved as well.
When the man’s wife had enough and made a decision, she also decided to post her story online. She wants people to tell her if she did the right thing, so enjoy the story and you be the judge.
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Idk where to start. This whole situation is embarrassing and i am just done with it.
I’ve been with my husband for 5years now. (married for three). Well long story short, his mom was always overwhelming and boald with her input on everything to put it nicely.
I genuinely think it’s not fair to be mad at your partner for something he didn’t do himself. He can’t control what his mom do or say. But what’s also not fair is him not addressing it when I am clearly uncomfortable or upset and instead just talking me into brushing it off or going with it. I never nor would I ever have a back and forth with my MIL. Just not worth barking at each other. I always kinda brush it of if it’s a snarky comment or if it’s a “better way” to do something in her opinion, I’ll just tell her thanks for the suggestion but we are fine.
It’s actually true, the saying “When you marry someone, you marry their family”. I think the way to handle it is each spouse should keep his side of the family in line for lack of a better way to say it. I deal with my parents and their shenanigans and I expected him to do the same. He never did. He always asks me to give her some grace.